You likely set high expectations for yourself and others. Your emotional world is not exempt from this, either. But where it can be easy to monitor others' performance in, say, a work capacity, assessing satisfaction levels in love and romance isn't quite so straightforward. You are right to set high expectations in both departments. But wanting perfection? Hmmm. That's too tall an order. Try to accept that something might be perfect by being as close to perfect as it can be!